Post by Hulk Hogan 1 Fan on Feb 3, 2007 12:55:35 GMT -5
This kinda goes along with the other thread "Have you ever dated someone that is married?". In my case, there's someone that I kinda have a crush on. I met her through work though it is not a work based crush. She worked for a company that my company does business with. I would call where she'd work over in the East Coast and ask for an invoice that I needed for processing.
It turned into small talk eventually. She had family in the Dallas-Fort Worth, Texas area where I am at. I didn't think anything of it. At the time that I met her which was in 2005, she was expecting her first kid and she was in a committed relationship.
Later on during 2005, she had her child and her, the child, and her live-in BF decided to leave the East Coast and move to Irving which is one of 'burbs in the DFW area (and where I live). It was late 2005 that they moved to Texas.
I didn't get to actually meet her until March 2006 when we had lunch near where I worked at and which is close to where she worked at too. That first time was great. At first thought, I thought that she was very cute and hot.
Throughout 2006, we'd have lunch on occasion. On one afternoon in October 2006, we actually spent the whole afternoon together. She didn't have a job and I took the whole day off (to go to the doc earlier that day). We had lunch, did a little shopping and went to the movies. It was the best time I had with her. We had our first friendly (I guess that was) kiss on the cheek as we said hello and goodbye. I didn't know what to think about it. I wasn't complaining though.
The next time I saw her was November on a Friday right before I was supposed to start my vacation. I was having a bad week and she was there to cheer me up. We went to our favorite restaurant. There was something different this time. She started telling me that she was having problems with her live-in boyfriend and that she was thinking of leaving him. I was trying to ask myself as she said this why would she bring it up with me. Maybe it was because that she felt comfortable telling me this. After all, we had been communication via email regularly. I didn't offer any words of wisdom. I just listened. As our conversation went on, we really realized that we had a lot in common--especially in music. She was into stuff like Depeche Mode, Siouxsie & The Banshees, a lot of 80s and early 90s alternative/goth stuff. I think that was when my feelings for her started to change.
The next time that I'd see her was in early-December. She was hosting an Arbonne party (cosmetics/health stuff) at her house in Irving and invited me to it. I really didn't want to go since I knew those parties would be a beating, but she was there and I had an early Christmas gift to give her (mix CDs and beer posters--believe me she loved the beer posters). After the Arbonne party was over, her BF left for awhile to go get a car across town with his brother which left me, her, her sponser, and her BF's brother's GF. My friend mentioned at some point what it'd be like to be a single mother. I thought that was odd of her to say since her BF's brother's GF was there.
After awhile, it was just me and her. We talked about movies and music and other stuff and somehow it came back to her mentioning that her and her BF have been in counsling for almost a year. Maybe I should've said something at that point but I didn't.
The night ended by her dropping me off back at my place and another friendly simple kiss on the cheek to each other.
I haven't seen her since then. Our schedules haven't been able to work out for now. We still email each other often. Nothing suggestive but she always mentions about something that I wrote to her as being very funny (which is a compliment). She never mentions problems with her BF in emails.
Lately, I am trying to figure out what she's trying to say about her problems with her BF from all the times I've been seeing her. I am thinking whether or not she wants me to make a move on her or not. I don't want to jeopardize my friendship with her. She is more mature than the Office Crush I had. I have a lot of fun hanging out with her. I really like her.We act like we've known each other for the longest time. She is a few years older than me (she's almost 36 as I am 32).
I don't know if I should make a move or not or just listen to her to see if she does have any more problems with her BF.
Anyone care to reply?
It turned into small talk eventually. She had family in the Dallas-Fort Worth, Texas area where I am at. I didn't think anything of it. At the time that I met her which was in 2005, she was expecting her first kid and she was in a committed relationship.
Later on during 2005, she had her child and her, the child, and her live-in BF decided to leave the East Coast and move to Irving which is one of 'burbs in the DFW area (and where I live). It was late 2005 that they moved to Texas.
I didn't get to actually meet her until March 2006 when we had lunch near where I worked at and which is close to where she worked at too. That first time was great. At first thought, I thought that she was very cute and hot.
Throughout 2006, we'd have lunch on occasion. On one afternoon in October 2006, we actually spent the whole afternoon together. She didn't have a job and I took the whole day off (to go to the doc earlier that day). We had lunch, did a little shopping and went to the movies. It was the best time I had with her. We had our first friendly (I guess that was) kiss on the cheek as we said hello and goodbye. I didn't know what to think about it. I wasn't complaining though.
The next time I saw her was November on a Friday right before I was supposed to start my vacation. I was having a bad week and she was there to cheer me up. We went to our favorite restaurant. There was something different this time. She started telling me that she was having problems with her live-in boyfriend and that she was thinking of leaving him. I was trying to ask myself as she said this why would she bring it up with me. Maybe it was because that she felt comfortable telling me this. After all, we had been communication via email regularly. I didn't offer any words of wisdom. I just listened. As our conversation went on, we really realized that we had a lot in common--especially in music. She was into stuff like Depeche Mode, Siouxsie & The Banshees, a lot of 80s and early 90s alternative/goth stuff. I think that was when my feelings for her started to change.
The next time that I'd see her was in early-December. She was hosting an Arbonne party (cosmetics/health stuff) at her house in Irving and invited me to it. I really didn't want to go since I knew those parties would be a beating, but she was there and I had an early Christmas gift to give her (mix CDs and beer posters--believe me she loved the beer posters). After the Arbonne party was over, her BF left for awhile to go get a car across town with his brother which left me, her, her sponser, and her BF's brother's GF. My friend mentioned at some point what it'd be like to be a single mother. I thought that was odd of her to say since her BF's brother's GF was there.
After awhile, it was just me and her. We talked about movies and music and other stuff and somehow it came back to her mentioning that her and her BF have been in counsling for almost a year. Maybe I should've said something at that point but I didn't.
The night ended by her dropping me off back at my place and another friendly simple kiss on the cheek to each other.
I haven't seen her since then. Our schedules haven't been able to work out for now. We still email each other often. Nothing suggestive but she always mentions about something that I wrote to her as being very funny (which is a compliment). She never mentions problems with her BF in emails.
Lately, I am trying to figure out what she's trying to say about her problems with her BF from all the times I've been seeing her. I am thinking whether or not she wants me to make a move on her or not. I don't want to jeopardize my friendship with her. She is more mature than the Office Crush I had. I have a lot of fun hanging out with her. I really like her.We act like we've known each other for the longest time. She is a few years older than me (she's almost 36 as I am 32).
I don't know if I should make a move or not or just listen to her to see if she does have any more problems with her BF.
Anyone care to reply?
