another work based crush

[Anthrax]

okay,my dilema with lots of complication!!!
first off theres a girl at work who i get along with real well,and she is my crush...
problem 1 she has a boyfriend
as a result of this i havent acted and im playing the waiting game
problem 2 is im moving away for a year and will only be back every 5th week.
now do i try to forget about her(im sure it will work over time......maybe)or just make my intensions know with some flowers on valintines day hoping it wont upset her boyfriend?

people at work may just be telling me what i want to hear but they think there is somthing there,at the very least good chemistry.

wht ya all think?

[Iceman]

Hmm, well problem 1 is a big one to start, lol. Her having a boyfriend. That usually closes the door right there, and the only way it could open up is if she opens it up by coming on to you. Which could happen over time if she breaks up with her boyfriend one day or starts to like you more than her. But unfortunitly I don't think there's nothing you could or should do, you should respect she has a boyfriend and if she ever comes on to you or asks you out then you can take it from there. So just keep being nice to her like you are, but try not to think about her as much or think anything of it, because it's not worth it, she has a boyfriend, lol.

Hope this helps you out a little bit bro.

[Hulk Hogan 1 Fan]

First of all, you shouldn't get her flowers since you two are not together. It might set a chain of events that probably wouldn't work in your favor. Maybe a nice simple card and not a big box of chocolates. That's is as far as I'll go.

When my Office Crush went back to New York to start off her senior year of college, I really thought that was the end of it---that I would NEVER see her again. We would occasionally email each other but that'd be it. I really thought that after her schooling was done, she still would not come back to Dallas. That was August 2005. December 2005---she shows up for a visit back to Dallas. March 2006---same thing. Later after that last visit, she emails me saying that she'll be back in Dallas after graduation, that she's taking time off before heading to law school. She pulls on over me by coming back to the same job she had the previous year. All that time, I was trying to get over her and here she is back in my thoughts. Part of me wanted her back at work because I would see her again. Part of me didn't because I would experience any possible heartache once she leaves again. She drives me crazy sometimes and she doesn't even know it.

For me, as much as I want to be with her, I am not going to pursue her. She'll leave again. I know she's off to law school Fall 2007 outside of Dallas and more than likely Texas. I don't want to stand in her way and dreams.

Sometimes, maybe just having a crush is as far as it should go. It might hurt now. Later, you'll be just fine.