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Post by Technical Wrestling Fan on Aug 8, 2006 15:35:22 GMT -5
Can they work?
I might be going to university next year, away from where I live now. It could be over 100 miles away (not alot in USA I know but for me it is in England) and i'm wondering how its possible to keep a realationship going if you can only see each other at weekends and holidays. Would you miss each other too much? Is there a factor of trust and temptation?
Any feedback or opinions I would be very grateful.
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Post by Iceman on Aug 11, 2006 1:40:49 GMT -5
It can work Mr. Technical, especially since your saying you can see them as often as every weekend? That's pretty good. Even if you can only see them ever other weekend that would be good enough too I think. Trust is a tough issue in general, so you have to really trust them now to think it will work. I do think college life is tough because they'll (well both of you) will be around so many people, but if your bond is strong enough and it was meant to be it will work. How long have you been with her? What does she think about you leaving to go to college? That's important.
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Post by Reggie Cook on Aug 11, 2006 2:22:13 GMT -5
Hey man, if the love is strong enough it will work and you can beat all odds. Good luck brother.
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Post by Technical Wrestling Fan on Aug 11, 2006 19:06:11 GMT -5
I've been with her for about 2 years, 7 months. I want to go wherever the best university course is for my career but she isn't too pleased about that. She thinks i'm going to get away from her. She would rather I stay in Liverpool but I don't fancy that. I want to meet new people male and female (but not too have sex with them.). I would prefer to have 2 bases family and university. That way when i'm finished I have the choice of two locations where I can find work. The weekend thing was something she suggested actually. I wonder how i'd be able to have a job that way at weekends if I was always travelling back home. But going every other weekend is a good idea (whoever said that) because then I can still focus on my studies, have a social life in my new city and still see her. But i'll have to see what happens.
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Post by Iceman on Aug 13, 2006 2:59:49 GMT -5
Well I understand what your saying about school and it makes a lot of sense, if you were single it would be no problem even, lol. But you do have a girlfriend and for over 2 years so that is pretty serious. So if you care about her a lot (she might be the one/don't want to be with other girls) then you have to compromise with her and make it work for you both. Maybe go to a school a little closer, maybe live with her between where you both live now and your new school? But if your not serious about her than you could choice school over her? But it's like choicing your career over your girl, and what is more important to you? To me being with the girl of my dreams would be most important to me, because when your happy, everything else should fall into place and with less worries.
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