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Post by Hulk Hogan 1 Fan on Jun 18, 2006 0:59:19 GMT -5
I am curious about this...........
I am in kinda of a dilemma on this. There's a gal that I've had an office crush last summer. She went to NY to finish her senior year of college. Now, she's back at where I work at. The feelings I had for her last summer are still there. I've tried to suppress these feelings but it's still there.
It's been a week since her return to work and already it's hard trying to be around her. There's only 2 people at work that's sworn not to tell anyone about my feelings for her.
I care about her but I don't know if I can ever tell her about it.
What a guy to do?
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Post by tysontomko on Jun 18, 2006 1:14:42 GMT -5
Did ever thought about coming really good friends first??
Or
You ever ask her about talking to her outside of work??
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Post by Iceman on Jun 18, 2006 1:32:54 GMT -5
I thought you already had a girlfriend for a while Hulk? I have dated a few girls I worked with in the past. Anyway, the only way you can tell if it's mutual is if you ask her out outside of work (which I recommend doing). It's really not too hard. Ask her if she wants to go to a bar/club, movie, or catch something to eat sometime. Or if you ever hear her say something like I'm having trouble buying/finding a car, cell phone, etc. Tell her your go with her and help her out. When your helping her do something it's good that she see's that, then she knows you care. Good luck with it and let me know how it goes.  |
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Post by Hulk Hogan 1 Fan on Jun 18, 2006 15:42:56 GMT -5
I thought you already had a girlfriend for a while Hulk? |
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Post by Hulk Hogan 1 Fan on Jun 18, 2006 15:45:54 GMT -5
Anyway, the only way you can tell if it's mutual is if you ask her out outside of work (which I recommend doing). It's really not too hard. |
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Post by Hulk Hogan 1 Fan on Jun 18, 2006 15:48:06 GMT -5
Did ever thought about coming really good friends first?? Or You ever ask her about talking to her outside of work??
Does it matter that I am 32 and she's 22? |
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Post by tysontomko on Jun 18, 2006 18:52:14 GMT -5
It should not.
He is a example:
My Dad is..55
His Common Law Wife is 42
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Post by Iceman on Jun 19, 2006 4:04:44 GMT -5
A girl that doesn't have time for a relationship, hmm, sounds almost familiar to me, lol. Not sure how to take that one.
Don't worry about the age thing Hulk, love doesn't have an age, just a connection, that's what I think.
Well good luck asking her out for lunch, that's a good start, but then after that you really need to try something outside of work, meaning after work or when you both have off. But good luck either way Hulk.
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Post by Alpha Clash on Jun 22, 2006 9:55:21 GMT -5
Guess I should throw my 2 cents in since I am also 32 and have dated 18-22 yr olds before...one from where I work. I started slow...started the friend route to hang out. After a little while, the real me came out and we started dating. It's your choice how you want to handle it. Lately, I haven't been hiding how I feel. I'm straight up to a girl and how I feel. Some are turned off...some are turned on. No BS...works for me.
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Post by Hulk Hogan 1 Fan on Jun 22, 2006 20:42:23 GMT -5
Lately, I haven't been hiding how I feel. I'm straight up to a girl and how I feel. Some are turned off...some are turned on. No BS...works for me. |
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Post by Ivan Putski on Jun 25, 2006 19:02:08 GMT -5
i owned a pizza place which was a great way to meet women. the good looking ones got hired and the really good looking ones got f***ed. usually at work.
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Post by Iceman on Jun 25, 2006 21:43:11 GMT -5
i owned a pizza place which was a great way to meet women. the good looking ones got hired and the really good looking ones got f***ed. usually at work. Lol, nice, so that was the real reason you had the Pizza Shop in Strousberg, not to make money, works for me. P.S. And it was a good Pizza Shop and Spot too. Miss visting up there sometimes. Good ish. |
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Post by Iceman on Jun 25, 2006 21:44:34 GMT -5
Yeah, Alpha's right, being straight forward (thus trying) is a good idea if you can do it. Plus you never know unless you try, so if you can have the courage, try.
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Post by Hulk Hogan 1 Fan on Jul 1, 2006 10:56:36 GMT -5
I won't have to deal with her next week. She's off to Wisconsin. She already made those plans before she ever returned to where I work at. I guess her boss didn't have a problem with it. At least she'll be back in a little over a week.
I did speak with her this past Saturday. My back was facing her as she entered my cubicle. It made my day that she stopped by. When I realized it her and that she touched me, my heart wanted to melt like lard.
Ella es muy caliente.
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Post by Iceman on Jul 2, 2006 21:06:18 GMT -5
Nice Hulk, well make your move while everything is going smooth. |
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