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Post by "The Tie-Dye Dream" Ricky Cool on Oct 16, 2005 17:04:10 GMT -5
Hey Yo guys and Girls, I'm in need of a little Adivce as well.
I go to a Drama Club ever Friday Night and there's this Girl there that I am very good freinds with and have been for 2 years now.
She's 3 years younger then me and while I've always thought she was attractive I never seriusly considered a relationship with her. But last week I had an accident while on stage and she helped me off and sat me down in the audiance seating and stayed with me untill I was ready to go back onstage.
But while we were sat there she got a little more touchie feely then just a conserned freind. I didn't respond becuase I was rather taken aback by this as she had never showed any real intrest in me beyond that of a freind.
I'm not realy sure how to proceed becuase I'm not sure if she REALY has feelings for me in that way or she was just been a bit over careing about me as she has said before now she sometimes see's me as a an older brother.
What would you sujest???
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Post by Iceman on Oct 16, 2005 17:21:51 GMT -5
Hmm...I see Ricky. Sounds like a pretty cool incident to start that could possibly lead to something. Well her showing you extra feelings in a time of need says something and is very positive. Her once saying the Big Brother thing is not. So you have to try and change that Big Brother idea in her head, but hopefully, maybe on her own she has and this is an example of that. My question is have you ever hungout with her outside this Drama Club? Have you talked to her on the phone? If not then you need to hangout with her outside of this. Even if it starts out simply and you ask her if she wants to get a bite to eat after the Drama Club is over. Or you can tell her this movie (any current movie), looks really good and ask her if she'd want to see it.  Let me know how it goes with you and her down the road. Good luck mate. |
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Post by Amber on Oct 16, 2005 22:32:26 GMT -5
The big brother thing really isn't that bad. What that shows, is that she feels very close and that you two are friendly with each other, but not in a romantic way. If you add the romance in by casual flirting, the big brother picture will eventually fade out and be taken over by more of a boyfriend picture.
I agree with Ice. You guys should hang out outside of the Drama Club. You need to get to know each other. Casual flirting doesn't hurt, just don't overdo it. If you see she's not responding well to it, back off a bit.
After Drama Club, if you're hungry, just say something to the effect of, "I'm starved!" and as if by coincidence ask her if she wants to go get a bite to eat. This right here is perfectly harmless. Food is food you know, but if she does want to go with you, it gives you a chance to talk. Talk about yourself, so she can get to know you, but don't forget to show interest in her too.
Say you do grab a bite to eat together. Talking about Drama Club would probably easiest at first. Just talk about whatever. You might catch hints on whether or not she's interested.
And if you want to see a movie with her, maybe you could talk about this movie you've been wanting to see and have this lead into you asking if she wants to see it with you.
Sooooooooooooo.............
1. Get to know her.
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2. Do overdo anything or over analyize anything for that matter. If you think too much you'll get all nervous. Don't worry about stuff just be yourself.
Don't know how much good I am, lol. Mostly I just elaborated on Ice's comments, but I hope it helps. Good luck!!
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Post by Iceman on Oct 26, 2005 21:20:07 GMT -5
So what's the latest with this girl Ricky, anything work out?
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Post by "The Tie-Dye Dream" Ricky Cool on Nov 6, 2005 9:53:38 GMT -5
Yes we have started hanging out together outside of Drama, nothing more thewn as freinds at the moment.
Just seeing were it leads.
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Post by Iceman on Nov 6, 2005 22:06:44 GMT -5
That's cool, good luck with that, if it's meant to be it will happen.
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Post by Ivan Putski on Nov 7, 2005 17:19:19 GMT -5
hey im new to this section but if my advice can help then much the better...
may i suggest that you read big dick blacks word of the day (located in stories of the lbc) todays word is houdini aka the philly fakeout. if u can pull this off with her she will love you forever.
nah man just kidding, but good luck with this girl. the world needs more love in it..... and be sure to check out big dick blacks word of the day with weekend contributions me, ivan putski
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Post by Blackjack Ketchum on Nov 14, 2005 0:23:27 GMT -5
Tell her that u are a super hero. If she doesnt believe you(this is likely) ,tell her you can fly. If she still doesnt believe you and insists on seeing it,jump out your window( not recomended if you live above the 1st floor) this is just one option. If that doesnt work , make her laugh. laughter opens doors. good luck... oh and a question for you ricky..Lol..how did you get injured in drama club?  |
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Post by Iceman on Nov 14, 2005 1:34:31 GMT -5
Tell her that u are a super hero. If she doesnt believe you(this is likely) ,tell her you can fly. If she still doesnt believe you and insists on seeing it,jump out your window( not recomended if you live above the 1st floor) this is just one option. If that doesnt work , make her laugh. laughter opens doors. good luck... oh and a question for you ricky..Lol..how did you get injured in drama club? That's pretty good advise, never thought of it, but everybody likes a Super Hero, good call Blackjack. And he's right, if she does't believe you then at least she'll probably be laughing. |
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Post by "The Tie-Dye Dream" Ricky Cool on Nov 14, 2005 9:44:15 GMT -5
oh and a question for you ricky..Lol..how did you get injured in drama club? I have Knee problems and have had for 3 year since a hit and run Bike Accident. It's been surgicaly repaired but still buckles on me from time to time and this was just one of those times and I came of the edge of the stage. |
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Post by Iceman on Nov 14, 2005 22:22:32 GMT -5
oh and a question for you ricky..Lol..how did you get injured in drama club? I have Knee problems and have had for 3 year since a hit and run Bike Accident. It's been surgicaly repaired but still buckles on me from time to time and this was just one of those times and I came of the edge of the stage. Geez, sorry to hear that Ricky, didn't know about that. Sorry. Life's tough sometimes in different ways for us all. Keep your head up and good luck with it. |
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Post by Amber on Nov 17, 2005 8:16:07 GMT -5
Superhero... that's cute, lol. Yeah, if she doesn't go for that, she probably would still find it funny, though if I were you I don't think I'd try jumping out of a window. Even if you are on the first floor, it still might hurt, lol. Sorry about your knee. Has to suck.
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Post by Ivan Putski on Nov 23, 2005 21:24:35 GMT -5
i tell women my father invented the wiffle ball and left me and my bro and sis $51 million, so i'm worth $17 million. it has actually worked a few times. act rich and talk like you know all about whatever your parents invented(please don't steal wiffle ball) and act sad that your father has passed. mine has so don't think i'm a ahole for saying something like that. good luck, this takes confidence in yourself and the story. oh, by the way, i'm an only child so i have to make up fake siblings too. this makes it even tougher
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Post by Iceman on Nov 24, 2005 21:06:30 GMT -5
i tell women my father invented the wiffle ball and left me and my bro and sis $51 million, so i'm worth $17 million. it has actually worked a few times. act rich and talk like you know all about whatever your parents invented(please don't steal wiffle ball) and act sad that your father has passed. mine has so don't think i'm a ahole for saying something like that. good luck, this takes confidence in yourself and the story. oh, by the way, i'm an only child so i have to make up fake siblings too. this makes it even tougher Wow  , I heard your father invented the Whiffle Ball but didn't know it was true, now I do, that's great Putski. He really contributed a lot to society too when you think about it, making it a better place for us all. |
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Post by Blackjack Ketchum on Nov 25, 2005 3:09:08 GMT -5
Sorry ricky didnt know about your bum knee... good luck with that... My advice is to make her relax with humor. once she feels comfortable around you make your move, if it doesnt work move on...good luck you sound cool.
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